Monday, December 15, 2008

First hellos

We arrived at the agency at 10:00 am (after a bit of a runaround the city with a confused taxi driver.) We met a social worker who gave us Jaden's passport and told us that his foster mother was on her way. She shut us in a backroom and we waited. The minutes took an eternity - the last few before we met our son.

The foster mom finally walked in and immediately held Jaden out to us. With gusto she introduced us to him as "ommah" and "oppah" (mom and dad.) Jaden didn't necessarily agree -- he was definitely a little hesitant with us at first. We went up to a playroom and had about 30 minutes together. The foster mother and social worker explained his routines to us. To be honest, it was terribly hard to concentrate. It was just so amazing; seeing him, touching him, hearing him, watching him. He is a busy little boy with a happy demeanor. He laughed and smiled often and played with every toy that was out in that short period of time. He let me hold him for a few minutes at a time before fussing for his foster mom. We got a chance to snap a few photographs -- the first of thousands I'm sure.

The foster mom is just phenomenal. She gave us a couple of photo albums of pictures she had taken over the past 8 months. She also gave us an amazing photo of Jaden on his 100th day -- all dressed up in traditional attire. It is gorgeous -- he is gorgeous. A perfect, healthy, happy baby boy. We couldn't ask for anything more.

We will meet with him again on Thursday afternoon and hope that he begins to feel more comfortable with us. Until then, we will scour the city for things he might enjoy.

The wait was definitely worth it.





11 comments:

  1. CONGRATULATIONS, Mom and Dad!!

    He is beautiful! We are so incredibly happy for all three of you! You are going to have a wonderful life together!

    Thank you for allowing us to share in your journey. We can't wait to meet him.

    Hugs and kisses to you all - and Annie, too (if you are able to meet up with her)!

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  2. Your first family picture!!! It brought tears to my eyes. We are so so so excited for you.

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  3. CONGRATULATIONS Mom amd Dad !!

    From Grandma and Grandpa Hanson

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  4. Oh, Ali and Dustin-- I'm trying to type through the tears. He is beautiful. Just beautiful. I am thrilled beyond words to see a picture of the three of you together. Congratulations. And here's wishing you a lifetime of happiness. Thank you so much for sharing.

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  5. How wonderful... he is lovely. I am sure it was hard to concentrate on eveything they said when all you can think of is holding and playing with that baby boy.

    You have a beautiful family.

    Tracy

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  6. Okay! SERIOUSLY. How cute is he?!?!? Adn you both look so extremely beyond happy. This side of the world is beaming with joy for you. And 'maybe' a few tears.

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  7. A few tears, Heidi? I'm trying to keep my composure in class right now, but I don't think it's going to happen! He is absolutely beautiful and you are both glowing! Congrats and lots of hugs!

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  8. I'm not even sure if I can type....my keyboard is awash with salty tears....Congratulations to the new Mom & Dad! You are beeming! And your son...he is just beautiful!

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  9. How amazing...I'm so happy for you! How good that must feel to finally see him, touch him, play with him...wow! Congratulations.

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  10. This is the absolute best thing ever! Congratulations I am so happy for all of you! So many people are thinking of you here in MN!!!! Take care of yourselves and your new son - good luck the rest of the week! Jaden is beautiful!

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  11. Dustin & Ali,
    we are so happy for you, what a treasury. Congrats and enjoy the ride!
    Talli & Veronica

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